Hotel Change?

Up to this point in our trip, we have had a great time, overall. There have definitely been stressful times, but our surroundings and hotels have been clean, safe, and comforting.  Florie has moved to fully preferring me, so we will have a lot of work to do when we get home....she is fine with William as long as I am holding her, but, obviously, it is very HARD on him when she cries/screams when he holds her for a bit.  Please pray that this will resolve soon.
When we arrived in Beijing, we came to our hotel.  We had picked it based on recommendations by the travel service that we used for the rest of the trip....we chose it because it has connecting rooms (an absolute MUST for us right now with all the kids), and for the non-smoking status, and for the pool so the boys could blow off steam while Florie napped/chilled.....they have done very well being patient with EVERYTHING and the pool is a big reward for them.
We get here...yep, no pool...okay, we can figure that out.  Get to the floor...there is smoke everywhere.  Even Jack says why does it stink here....but, the only connecting rooms are on this floor, which is clearly smoking. Our room has ash trays and asks that we not smoke in our beds.  The hotel has a cancellation policy, and our guide said we could move to two non connecting rooms, but that is not an option....for any of the kids.  So, we open the windows, trying to make the best of things (lemonade out of lemons, not the other :)),   We sleep poorly because of the traffic and honking and street noises, but still try to be positive.  The breakfast buffet is OKAY...but positive.
Then we leave for the entire day yesterday...and last night come home to one of our bags missing,  It is the bag with the chargers for our cameras, itouches, wires, and the boys' fuel batteries we ordered for this trip so they could charge their itouches on the plane.  They are big and look a lot like iphones, so I suspect that someone thought they were getting the iphone.  Fortunately, nothing fully valuable was taken, like Florie's papers, but still, we feel very unsafe. The hotel is looking at the video from the hallway, and our guide wants to come again this morning to go through all of our things (believe me, we went through everything..it is NOT a small bag!) to make sure we did not misplace it.  For me, this was the last straw.  I cannot stay here, wondering next what will /might happen.....we have asked our guide to find another hotel, non-smoking, CONNECTIng rooms, for us.  I am sure we will have to pay more money.....we will see what happens.
I just hate this for this part of our trip.  We wanted to have a great ending in Beijing...seeing all of the rich history, enjoying family time, getting a few more gifts (there just has not been enough time yet!).  Instead, we have had this hotel issue, plus our guide who seems to be pleasant, but took us to the "most scenic" portion of the Great Wall, aka the most very crowded section where it was really hard to even get a pic of the boys, then to one of the Friendship Stores (which I had asked to NOT go to) for lunch, leaving us to be there for over 2 hours...ugh!  I have also asked to go to ToysRUs for a few minutes to get Legos for Ben's birthday (the CHinese ones are supposed to be great!), but she says we can either take two taxis, or maybe the driver will drop us off and we can walk the 20-25 minutes home.....our other experiences have been that our guides have been so helpful in the other provinces....just a little isolating here.
Ok, thank you for letting me vent...it will be okay, we are all together and everyone is healthy.  We have our passports on us at all times, and now will have Florie's stuff out of the safe as well.  Hopefully things will go well today. We are supposed to go to Forbidden City adn Tiannamen Square, and  I hope we can still do that.  I guess we will also pay up to go to Toys RUs...sweet Ben has not complained at all about no presents on his birthday!
Hope you all are well!
Love,
Eve